Thursday, November 26, 2009

Friendship That Lasts Forever




FRIENDS

are one of the most valuable persons that everyone really treasure so much. But why do people do this? Is it just because to have popularity or is it because they are afraid to lose the people they ere keeping for?


We value our friends like our favorite toy just so much because they are the persons who are always there for us no matter what happen. They keep beside on you through good times or even in bad times. They care for you by showing support and giving advices. They make you happy whenever you're sad and make you smile when tears about to fall from your eyes. These people show how much they love you. They are the one who tells you if the things you're doing is right or wrong. They correct your mistakes. When someone is hurting you, your friends are always there ready to defend you.

But, sometimes we can't avoid to have some conflicts and misunderstanding with our friends. Sometimes, we don't even noticed we're hurting each other and that we're forgetting we're friends just because of our anger and madness. And because of that reason, your friendship will break. Sometimes, we don't want to forgive each other and forget what happened. That's the start of acting like you don't know each other like you're both strangers with one another.

Yes, you're hurt, but is that the enough reason to forget and throw away the moments you've shared with them? Is that enough? Do you think, things will go fine if you keep having your pride on top of your heart? Is it enough to ignore others, to forget the pain inside? Is it fine to stop apologizing?

If that will happen, surely you won't even get back the things that happened to you with your friends. You won't even find true friends because you're afraid to lose them again. You will have no more confidence in yourself of gaining friends. You will be lonely, and you'll seek happiness and attention that only your true friends can give.

So, now, start valuing your friends. Treasure them in your hearts as you treasure others. treat them as you want them to treat you. Love and take care of them as they do to you. Thank them for all the things they have given you. And of course, apologize to them whenever you hurt them.


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Friends are like balloons,
once you let them go
you can never bring them back.

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